This is going to be a difficult post to write.  I’m a very private person, but I’m working on that.  There are some things, though, that no matter how much you want to be vocal about them that either you can’t find the words or fear prevents you from saying them, even if it’ll help someone else.  That fear could be unfounded, or you could have history that causes that fear.  And in this case, I have history that causes that fear.